Monthly Archives: April 2003

Webcam is on. Watch me

Webcam is on. Watch me in my boredom
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Would writing out some kind

Would writing out some kind of agreement for Mike to sign on how the rent is to be paid too petty? I just want to make sure if I sign a lease with him that he doesn’t screw me over again, unintentionally or not. Don’t know if it would do me any good if I had to take him to small claims court or something.
Blah!!! This whole situation stinks.
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How I know it’s the weekend.

Every Friday, when I drop off the van, the sound of bagpipes fill the air. The person is either playing them in the school’s corp. yard, the police station, or from the Stonestown Apartments. It just puts a smile on my face listening to them and I know that it is the weekend.
So what is up for this weekend? Making movie with Peter tomorrow; Giant’s game with Angie on Sunday; and either signing a year lease with Mike or turning in my 30 days notice to Park Merced on Monday.
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Friday Five for April 11, 2003

1. What was the first band you saw in concert? I was in Korea and I saw The Jets at the base. They were doing an USOtour through Asia.
2. Who is your favorite artist/band now? **sigh** Right now I am liking Coldplay, Norah Jones, Missy Elliot. For the most part, corporate FM radio has deaden my ears and killed music has we know it.
3. What’s your favorite song?The songs of the month are: Allyah,Miss You; Missy Elliot, Gossip Folks; Missy Elliot andBeyonce Knowles , Nothing Out There For Me; Coldplay,Clocks; Norah Jones, Come Away With Me, Jay-Zand Beyonce Knowles,’03 Bonnie & Clyde. Those are the ones that come to mind right now.
4. If you could play any instrument, what would it be? A guitar. Guys who play guitar can always get the chicks.
5. If you could meet any musical icon (past or present), who would it be and why?
I’ve always wanted to meet Jim Morrison. Like, if I had to fly to some musical icon grave to place a rose, then his would be it. He just seems to be a fasinating person to me. Wonder if it would be better than I think it could be or a big disapointment.
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The Book of Questions – Question #2

Do you believe in ghosts or evil spirits? Would you be willing to spend a night alone in a remote house that is supposedly haunted? Continue reading

Roommate negotiations…

To recap, when I got home on Tuesday, there was a message on the whiteboard from Mike (my roommate) that he wanted to have a “chat” with me. So I go up to his room and talk to him, and he tells me that I am a good roommate, but he wants to stay in the place that we are at now ad not move. This is after four months of him knowing that I wanted to move…no, HAD to move because the rent was too much for me. Basicly, half of my monthly salary was going to rent; the other half was going to bills and I wasn’t able to save any money. The original plan was to find a new place, preferally at a apartment complex where the deposit would be cheaper. But if we moved into a house, then Mike agreed to take care of the deposit and I would pay him back my half of it later.
So he drops this on me, not 3-4 months before our lease is up. He doesn’t say anything last month, which would have given me some time to sell my body on the street to get some money. No, he tells me this a couple of weeks before our lease is up. And I’m talking about a little over two weeks before. So after a day of me freaking out about it and having “living in my car” flashes. I sat down with Mike and started negotiations.
Basicly, I have no choice but to stay here and to sign a year-long lease with Mike. The only other option is to hop from house to house and live in my car until I got money to move somewhere. Basicly, I just need 1 check and I could do it. So that would be about a month or two of bohemian living. Problem is that I have too much going on with work and I don’t want to have to deal with this.
So, the plan right now is for the two of us to sign a year long lease with Parc Merced (apts where we live) for $1600. That is a little less than what we pay now, and we are going to split that between us. We are also going to look for a third roommate to live downstairs in the living room, so we can split the rent three ways. I want to offer both the living room and dining room, but mike wants to try to have a living room of some kind. Whatever. Personally, I didn’t want to do this, but Mike has left me no choice. And then we got into an argument about the parking space. Mike wanted me to pay more for the bigger room. I said sure, but I wanted the parking space for myself. So we got into it about that.
So an hour and a half later, I think we get everything settled, and then Mike starts to argue that $800 is too much for him to pay. And I almost flip; after the shit that he has put me through, the LEAST he could do is split the rent with me. If anything, he should be paying more. I mean, he works less than 10/wk. and mommy/daddy pays is rent. Dad is a lawyer and his stepdad is some kind of neurologist or something.
So he is currently thinking about it. I gave him until this weekend, which should be enough time for him to think about it. The thing that he needs to decide is if he can find a roommate to move in with him in a short period of time because finals are comming up. If not, then he will be stuck with a $1800 rent all to himself.
**sigh** Hopefully I can get this taken care of this week. This just underscores what a precarious position I am in with my funds. I need to get some money saved so I won’t be in a position like this again.
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No talking on Trillian; def no Mechwarrior 4

I have to goto sleep, so I will talk about how tonight’s housing negotiations went tomorrow at work.
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I think this is the quote of the week:

“Fuck you for showing me how great love can be.”
-taken off of the fuck you list on Blurty
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Taking a step back and looking around….

**groan** I will pay today for staying up late and not getting any sleep. But I think even if I would have gone to bed early, I would have got little sleep.
From the shouts, cheers, news conferences, and analyist speaking, it sounds like we either got Saddam or Baghdad is ours. yay. I’m happy that this this might be plateauing out; I know this thing is FAR from over, but hopefully, it is along enough so that I don’t have to hear another news report from an “embedded” reporter. Maybe I’ll feel more after I get some rest.
Did I mention that I am seeing the Giants on Sun. vs. the Dodgers. Here are my seats:

Not a bad set of club level seats. Maybe I’ll be able to bring home a souvenir.
Anyway, analyzing the housing situation and the first thoughts that I have been having is trying to figure out how I can stay. I said before that I didn’t want to have a third roommate move into our living room. However, now I am seriously reconsidering it. I think mainly because I really don’t want to have to move my bed out (It was such a bitch to get it into my room in the first place). And if we could get a third roommate, I could save even more money. And three guys/one bathroom isn’t as bad as three girls/one bathroom.
The other thought is the “living in my car daydream/nightmare” that I’m always having it seems. However, if I did bum it from couch to couch for a month or so, I would def. have money saved. It’s not that I don’t make enough money to cover my bills. I do and I’m actually paying a little more on most of them, and not just the min payments. However, that’s all I’m doing, I got no money saved for long-term goals.
O.K. I wish have a sit down with Mike sometime this week to see if we can save our roommateship. Going to have to look at the schedule and juggle things around. Let me just get back to work
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Bad, Joe. Bad Joe.

What happened to me today:
Tim came in late, eyes diluted, couldn’t read. Funny watching him try to receive an order.
Brian came out with the consulting guy. Got good estimate for the warehouse move.
Did taxes. Remember why I did them over the Internet for the last couple of years. Except that I’m only getting $20 back, so it doesn’t make sense to do them like that this year.
Have to do taxes over again to make sure I did them right the first time.
Got tickets for the Giants/Dodgers Sunday night. Club Level Baby.
Had a “chat” with Mike tonight. Mike wants to stay here, and basically kicked me out.
I have no money saved up. The point of us moving into a cheaper apartment was so I could start saving money.
Mike thinks that he can find a roommate to take over my $925. He will be lucky if he can find someone to split the rent down the middle. Well, maybe not. It is close to campus. I’m sure someone will be willing to pay half.
Mike forgot that our lease is up at the end of this month, wonder if he can find this person within three weeks.
Need to forget about Mike and worry about myself and find a new place.
Since the warehouse is moving, storing my stuff there is out of the question; will have to rent a storage space somewhere.
Hypothetically, if I slept in my car for a month or crashed at somebody’s house for a month, I could save $1000, which would be enough for me to get a place on my own.
Stayed up to 3am playing Mechwarrior online. I have to work tomorrow and I can’t call it, cause Mark is coming in and not Tim
Thinking about and missing Suzanne right now.
O. K. go to sleep. Think about this tomorrow
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