Do you seek advice about romantic issues more or less than about other things in your life? When you are in love, is outside opinion worthless because your feeling are so personal, or worth more because it is so easy for you to lose perspective? How much do you trust your insights about what is best for someone else?
In the early phases of a romance, how much are you influenced by your friends’ and family’s opinions of your potential partner? Continue reading
On your 25th anniversary, what kind of honeymoon do you think would be most pleasing to look back on? Do you think that second honeymoons are a good idea? if you were going to take one, where would be the most romantic place you could go?
If you went out with someone a few times and you both were attracted to each other, do you think you could stimulate the person’s interest in you more by having sex or by withholding sex? Continue reading
Who initiates sex more often, you or your partner? When one of you feels like having sex, how does he or she let the other know? Ideally, how would you like your partner to go about initiating sex? Continue reading
At your age (43), do you think it is easier for men or women to find a good partner? In what ways do you think the aging process is different for men and women?
When you first have sex with someone, is it more important to you that your partner is a “good” lover or that your partner thinks you are a “good” lover?
If you caught a long-term relationship virus (LTRV) that would kill you if you stayed in a romantic involvement for more than six months, how do you think your partners would differ from those you now like? Do you think you would end up spending more or less energy on sex and romance? Continue reading
Have you ever had a lover you wanted to break up with but keep as a friend? Or perhaps as a casual sexual partner? Continue reading
If Your partner completely lost his or her temper and started smashing dishes and furniture, what whould you do? What would you do if the anger were directed at you and you were slapped, hit, or threatened? What would you do if either of these started happening every six months or so?