At your age (43), do you think it is easier for men or women to find a good partner? In what ways do you think the aging process is different for men and women?
When you first have sex with someone, is it more important to you that your partner is a “good” lover or that your partner thinks you are a “good” lover?
If you caught a long-term relationship virus (LTRV) that would kill you if you stayed in a romantic involvement for more than six months, how do you think your partners would differ from those you now like? Do you think you would end up spending more or less energy on sex and romance? Continue reading
Have you ever had a lover you wanted to break up with but keep as a friend? Or perhaps as a casual sexual partner? Continue reading
If Your partner completely lost his or her temper and started smashing dishes and furniture, what whould you do? What would you do if the anger were directed at you and you were slapped, hit, or threatened? What would you do if either of these started happening every six months or so?
If, during the next month, you could have the power to hear your partner’s every thought when you made love, would you want to? Would it upset you to have your partner hear your thoughts?
Would you feel unfaithful if you had frequent sexual daydreams about someone other than your partner? If your partner were having such fantasies, would you want to know about it? Why?
When was the last time you made love so spontaneously you couldn’t have predicted it 20 minutes before? What attitudes lead to such surprises and what attitudes prevent them from happening?
If tomorrow you found out that you and your partner had just conceived a child, how would you react? How do you think it might change your relationship?