If during a two-week vacation you had met and fallen in love with someone who lived a thousand miles from you, what would you do when you returned home to give the relationship a chance? If the two of you wanted to be together, how would you be willing to change your life to make it happen, and how much would you expect your liver to change?
In the early phases of a romance, how much are you influenced by your friends’ and family’s opinions your potential partner?
I think for all the relationships I have been in, I have kept my friends and family away. I don’t think I’ve hidden my partner or have been ashamed of them. With one of them, I knew that they did not like her, so I just kept the two groups away. With another, I was wary of them not liking the new person that I was with (although I didn’t have any reason for that) and got drunk at the first meeting. Luckily they liked her and had a good time with her while I was passed out. The last one wanted the relationship to be quiet. Although I did tell my friends about her and I think that they would have got along, the relationship never made it to that point.
With my parents I always wait I few months to tell my parents so that it’s too late to interfere.
If you can into great wealth, would you be afraid of being taken for a ride by someone who was after you for your money? How would you protect yourself without being overly suspicious of people? Continue reading
Have you remained close friends with any former lovers? If not, would you like to have done so? Continue reading
Do you think saying “I love you” to someone means more or less to you than it does to other people? What about having sex?
When was the last time you had so much fun making love that you laughed out loud? Are your fondest memories of lovemaking from times that were playful or serious?
When did you find out the most about what pleases you sexually and what was it that you learned? Have you discovered more through long-standing relationships or through short periods of intimacy with different lovers?
In what joint activities do you support and help your partner while he or she runs the show, and in what activities does your partner do this for you?
Have you ever been in love not so much with the person you were seeing but rather with your image of that person and the life the two of you could have together? If so, were you aware of this at the time?
Five years from now, in what ways do you think your relationship will have improved or deteriorated?
