Have you ever been in love not so much with the person you were seeing but rather with your image of that person and the life the two of you could have together? If so, were you aware of this at the time?
Five years from now, in what ways do you think your relationship will have improved or deteriorated?
Do you find particular environmental undercurrents especially stimulating sexually – for example, danger, opulence, or formality? If so, do you ever try to create situations that contain these elements? What is the most sensuous, erotic, setting you can imagine for love making?
You are beginning an exciting romance and learn that your partner, who badly wants children, would almost certainly leave you if he or she discovered that you were unable to have kids. If you were almost sure that you could never have a child, would you try to hide the fact for awhile or reveal it right away
Do you seek advice about romantic issues more or less than about other things in your life? When you are in love, is outside opinion worthless because your feeling are so personal, or worth more because it is so easy for you to lose perspective? How much do you trust your insights about what is best for someone else?
In the early phases of a romance, how much are you influenced by your friends’ and family’s opinions of your potential partner? Continue reading
On your 25th anniversary, what kind of honeymoon do you think would be most pleasing to look back on? Do you think that second honeymoons are a good idea? if you were going to take one, where would be the most romantic place you could go?
If you went out with someone a few times and you both were attracted to each other, do you think you could stimulate the person’s interest in you more by having sex or by withholding sex? Continue reading
Who initiates sex more often, you or your partner? When one of you feels like having sex, how does he or she let the other know? Ideally, how would you like your partner to go about initiating sex? Continue reading
At your age (43), do you think it is easier for men or women to find a good partner? In what ways do you think the aging process is different for men and women?